Most women need a few tips when it comes to learning how to turn their man on.
Men are simple creatures when it comes to sex. Like a dog, keep it happy, well fed and satisfied. That is the secret to taking care of the man and making sure that he is fulfilled sexually.
Here are some simple suggestions on what men like in bed to make sure your man is sexually fulfilled.
1. Frequency turns your man on
A survey of thousands of men indicated that the amount and regularity of sexual intercourse was a top issue. 75% of the men who responded said they wanted sex a minimum of 5 times a week.
How often have you had sex? Most responded with less than 1 session per week or none at all. This means that your ‘gas tank’ of sexual satisfaction is running low.
Your man may not need or want sex 5 times a week, but finding out what his expectations are is essential.
The good news is that sex doesn’t need to be so fantastic. However, it needs to happen frequently.
2. wish
Do you like to feel that your man is attracted to you and finds you sexually desirable? Here’s a newsflash: Men also like to feel sexually attractive.
Men get tired of continually pursuing sex or harassing their partner for it. Not having to hunt and chase sex is one of the main factors that make men settle on having a woman.
That is why some men feel a bit ripped off when they get married and also the sex dries up.
3.Adventure
Adventure is sexy. What men want in bed is a woman who is willing to experiment a little. Experimenting is attractive and exciting.
Be open, enthusiastic, and willing to experiment with your body and his. Let it be a game or an adventure.
One factor I like to suggest would be to do something different every time you have sex. It doesn’t have to be a big change. Maybe how you kiss your man, how hard or soft, etc. Make sure each session has a little exciting and unexpected twist… like a great movie.
This is just what men want in bed, but also what women want.
4. Being orgasmic turns your man on
Up to this point, it will most likely seem like it’s all about satisfying him and his requirements, correct? Well, the truth is that what men like in bed and what men want in bed is for YOU to be sexually satisfied. Men get turned on by watching you masturbate.
What guys really want is for you to be as sexually satisfied as he is. So it’s your responsibility to make sure you have an orgasm. Can you orgasm by yourself and not with him? If not, you need to start practicing. The well-being of your relationship could depend on it.
He wants to know that he can bring you pleasure, but men require a lot of help in this department. Communicate what works for you. Show him pleasuring you in front of him so he can see what strokes you like on your clit.
5. Passion
The only factor worse than being in bed with someone who is a ‘dead fish’ is not having sex at all. Without passion, sooner or later their sex life will evaporate and they will turn out to be just roommates.
Having frequent sexual intercourse is an important factor, but it is also very important to become a willing and enthusiastic participant.
Do what you must do to show passion. Fake it ’til you make it when you have to. Act like you are passionate and your body will start to respond. Make sounds!
However, never fake orgasms for a number of factors. This is because you will train him to be a poor lover.