What could be better than a gentle and sensual massage? One that smells absolutely divine, of course! You may not consider scent to be all that important to your erotic massage technique, but when it comes to your caresses, you’ll be amazed at what a difference an aphrodisiac can make.
Aromatherapy? Not for me…
when i say the word “aromatherapy” You may already have visions of New Age music and your wife’s special spa treatment, but there are a dozen great reasons to incorporate the basic science of scent into your sex life. Don’t be fooled: aromatherapy is serious business!
The main ingredient in any aromatherapy treatment or concoction is essential oils – a volatile oil from plant matter, the part of the plant that gives it its smell and taste. You can purchase essential oils from several different sources to make your own massage blends. You can buy ready-to-use blended oils, or you can even try making your own!
Just remember… being natural doesn’t automatically make something safe. Some essential oils are contraindicated for pregnant or menopausal women. Others can make the skin more photosensitive or cause irritation. If you decide to mix your own mixtures, be sure to carefully follow the instructions regarding the preparation of massage mixtures. All essential oils must be mixed in what is called a oil trailthe kind of oil typically used for cooking and body preparations: almond, grapeseed, coconut, even regular olive oil from the grocery store will work, though something with a more neutral or tropical smell is usually recommended.
It works?
Dozens of different oils have been associated with aphrodisiac properties, but each has its own particular predilections. What your woman enjoys will depend on her olfactory senses, so experiment a bit and see what she likes. She smells the perfumes and air fresheners that she uses. Does she like floral, spicy, musky or fresh? Does she tend toward sweet citrus notes or savory herbs? Why not take a shopping trip to a local essential oil supplier with your lover and see what kind of scents you can pick out together? Here is a list of common aphrodisiac oils to get you started on your search.
Amber It has a sweet, sensual scent that begs to linger in the hollow of your throat and spread across your pulse points, reminiscent of your favorite perfume. It has an overpowering scent that can be difficult to blend, so use it sparingly.
Basil it’s sweet and spicy, encouraging sexual stimulation as well as being mentally and emotionally stimulating for those days when you’re so tired you worry a massage is all you want. She don’t worry, if there is something that wakes her up. , it’s basil!
Bergamot it’s an overall mood lifter with a soft, citrusy floral scent that blends so well with the others.
CinnamonWith its spicy apple pie scent, it’s a favorite of men and women alike, fostering a relaxing, homey feeling while brightening up any situation.
Clover It complements very well the mixtures of cinnamon, with another spicy note.
Cardamomanother favorite “VS” spice, has a sweet and seductive aroma that encourages sexual attraction with a warm and inviting glow.
Cilantro It should be used sparingly, but its sweet and spicy scent is often considered an aphrodisiac, blending well with other oils such as jasmine and sandalwood.
ginger is another spicy aroma that can be used in hot oils, again with caution. It is known to heighten passions and inflames desires, and goes well with “C” spices.
Pink grapefruit is incredibly uplifting and pairs well with other citrus fruits, along with neroli, bergamot, and “VS” spices up. It’s another mood lifter to help brighten up a bad day.
Jasmine is an intoxicating floral scent that almost no woman can resist, adding warmth and sensual notes to any blend. It should be avoided during pregnancy, but mixes well with other musky oils such as amber, neroli, and sandalwood.
lavender is a classic massage scent due to its ability to promote relaxation. It’s also antibacterial, so it works great for foot massages after a long, hard day in heels!
Neroli is an exotic aphrodisiac with a deep, seductive aroma known to facilitate sexual arousal and clear communication between lovers.
Pink essential oil is as good as a veritable dozen precious flowers, sweet and sensuous, uplifting and joyous, speaking directly to your heart. It is perfect for special occasions and pairs well with other exotic or floral scents.
Patchouli it is exotic and musky with a very earthy scent, both provocative and sensual to lower inhibitions and heighten desires. It tends to blend very well with the natural scent of the body.
Sandalwood is another musky fragrance with deep notes that speak to its use in ritual and meditative practices around the world. It is excellent for making love slowly and sensually.
vanilla is another classic scent that, like cinnamon, tends to remind us of home. It combines very well with spices, as well as with any of the floral aromas.
ylang-ylang is the quintessential erotic and exotic aromatherapy aphrodisiac, known to enhance libido and your well-being