Do you wake up every day dreading what comes next and worrying about all the problems you have, or do you wake up every day and feel energized just by thinking of all the possibilities and opportunities? Your honest answer to this question is your starting point. Colorado cannot be reached by boat. We all have limitations. Setting mental limits are the self-inflicted barriers that set you up to fail. It is impossible to achieve your goals by the means you have been taking. You can get to Colorado in a number of ways, however ship is not one of them.
We measure success by what we have. The true measure of success is not looking at how big or how many possessions you have, it is about enjoying the journey and loving the important people with whom we want to share our experiences.
Most people succeed or fail for the same reasons. How you react to the events that happen defines who you are. You can’t reach your goal unless you really have one. You need to know what your goal is and plan a strategy to reach that goal. Your life can easily turn into a series of things that allow you to mentally put off setting real goals indefinitely. From high school you go to college. In college, you take several classes, not specifically aiming for anything. You take jobs based on what you pay the most, regardless of whether you enjoy working there, whether you are learning something, whether you are moving in the direction of achieving anything you want, but wait, you don’t know if these things are leading. what you want because you haven’t said what you want. You move around the country because you get a few more benefits from the company, never wondering that you should make a conscious decision about your future. You let circumstances dictate your life.
This is not only depressing, but you don’t recognize what is happening to you. They meet the love of their life and live together, eventually drifting towards marriage and children. You don’t actually make the decision to do any of these things, you allow the circumstances around you to decide for you. If you never state what you want, you never have to decide what to do or how to do it. You cannot fail because there is no baseline to measure up to anything or anyone. The road to failure is because you never really start.
The real reason Harvard graduates make so much more money is because they are focused, determined, and passionate about their specialty. You don’t have to be a Harvard graduate to be successful. In fact, if you pay attention, you will remember the incredible success of dozens of people who dropped out of high school or college to follow their dream. It is sheer determination, hard work, perseverance, and never giving up that made these people winners. They made the decision to be successful and they do.
Stop what you are doing right now and ask yourself if you are living the life you want. If so, great. If you never thought of any of these things, it is not too late. It doesn’t matter how old you are, the state of your health, your gender, your relationships or your job. It really is as easy as this; Take a look at the situation in your life and find out what is important to you. Decide if it is important enough to do something to change your life and get what you want. Decide that you are worthy of achieving whatever goal you set for yourself. The sooner it starts, the sooner it will arrive.