For a shy guy, meeting women can be very difficult.

It’s not easy for most guys, but for someone who is very shy, it’s much worse.

I would even say that shy guys tend to fall short, so to speak, when it comes to women and relationships in general!

The reason for this is that if a girl is shy, she can still have guys approach her and eventually find a boyfriend. However, the average shy guy isn’t going to have women coming his way anytime soon.

It is the sad reality of men that we are the ones destined to be the persecutors. Women will not approach us, we have to be the ones who approach THEM and do all the work.

If we don’t get close, we won’t catch the girl.

It sucks, right?

And sadly shy guys just don’t approach women! And because of this, they tend to end up lonely and desperate most of the time.

Well, don’t worry too much. Approaching women is not as difficult as you might think, ESPECIALLY if you are dealing with shyness. You just need to follow a few simple tips and before you know it, you’ll be dealing with more women than you can handle.

1. Memorize some good pickup lines

One of the main reasons shy guys don’t approach a woman is because their brains go on a FREEZE and they can’t think of anything to say.

In fact, coming up with something cool and interesting to talk about in the moment is a daunting task. That’s why it’s a good idea to have a line that you can use that has been proven to work, so you don’t have to think about anything.

Pick up lines get a bad rap, because we always hear the BAD ones. You know, the “I lost my number, can I have yours?” kind of thing. “Did you wash your pants in Windex? Because I can see myself in them?” and of course, the ever popular “Why don’t you come back to my house for pizza and sex? What? You don’t like pizza?”

However, some still use them, and they are terrible. And get terrible results.

A good pick up line is simply something that engages a girl and makes her TALK to you. Once you start a conversation, you can take her pretty much anywhere she wants.

Using a line like “Hey, in your opinion, would you want to date a guy who spends three hours a day at the gym?” it’s much more effective than any of the bad pick-up lines you hear.

It may seem like a random question, but you’re asking him about a genuine opinion he might have, and of course this conversation can lead to talking about past relationships, guys he’s dated, and what he finds attractive in guys (all good). ). information to know, right?).

A good pick up line doesn’t have to surprise the girl. He just needs her to talk. But try to stay away from chatting about World Of Warcraft and your Star Trek DVD Box Set. Save that conversation for the third date.

2. Use the power of negative visualization

A big reason why shy guys resist meeting a girl is because they are too “intimidated” by her beauty. It makes them nervous or scared to approach.

That’s why I recommend you use the power of “negative” visualization to make that hot girl seem less desirable!

Imagine her with really hairy legs, a mustache, a huge boil on her nose, and really bad body odor.

Not so attractive anymore, right?

When a shy guy is able to lower his attraction level to a woman a bit, it helps him find the courage to approach her, because suddenly, she’s not so intimidating anymore.

It will help you relax, considerably. And who knows, you might have a little fun.

3. Tell some entertaining stories or be prepared to do so

The hardest part of meeting new women is not having anything fun or interesting to talk about with them!

An awkward pause in the conversation can spell DEATH for the interaction. And most shy guys will pass up the opportunity to meet a girl with the excuse of “I don’t know what to talk to her about.”

But the dirty little secret of approaching women is that you don’t NEED much to talk to them about. If you only have a few interesting stories to tell, you’re fine. The rest of the time, you can ask her questions and let her talk about herself.

The stories don’t even have to be about you! They can be about a friend of yours or about a news item you saw. It doesn’t matter, as long as you have fun and entertaining things that you know you can talk to a girl about when there’s a lull in the conversation.

This will help you avoid any discomfort you may feel when approaching a woman.

4. Don’t think about it, just do it!

Given enough time to think about it, a shy guy will be discouraged from approaching a girl. The trick is to act before your brain has time to come up with an excuse not to get closer.

Within THREE SECONDS of seeing a girl you like, you should say “Hi!”

That’s all. Just say hi.” Don’t think about it. She just acts.

They’ll probably reply “Hello” and when they do, use your conversation starter. There you have it, you are in a conversation!

Shyness is caused by allowing your brain to visualize all the bad results of an interaction with a girl. Don’t give him a chance! Get out some Nikes and do it.

5. Use online dating

Finally, shy guys should use the Internet to help them meet women. This actually serves two purposes…

First of all, it helps shy guys meet women without actually having to talk to them at first, so there’s plenty of time to build trust and comfort there. By the time the first date rolls around, most of the hard work is already done!

Second, going online can give you CHOICES. Shy guys usually don’t have many women available to them, so they place a lot of importance on every girl they like.

But if you have 5-10 women emailing you, all wanting to meet up, this will give you an ABUNDANCE mindset and make it easier to approach women in real life because you know if it doesn’t work out, you still have plenty of other girls. who want to meet you

This is a HUGE psychological benefit!

Just remember that shyness is a learned behavior. We are not born shy. It is not something we have no control over. We TRAIN ourselves to be shy over time, and that means we can untrain ourselves.

And with some work, your shyness will fade away!