During the holiday season, it seems like everyone is stepping back to reflect on the year that is coming to an end. This year I will not only think about the sadness of the year, but also about the many blessings and miracles that surround me.
Katie was diagnosed with a malignant glioblastoma in January 2013. As a high school senior, she was looking forward to prom, senior trip, graduation, and college. Her life and her bear were about to change forever. Katie endured biweekly surgery, radiation, and chemotherapy. At that time she was still going to Disney with her senior class (school nurse and mom in tow). She went to prom as radiant and beautiful as ever and entered prom. Katie wanted to live as normal a life as possible, which is why she said “Love the life you live.” Katie’s journey ended this summer after an 18-month battle.
Why does it take a tragedy of a young woman’s life ending in such a horrible way to wake everyone around her to appreciate life?
My friend drove home after Katie’s funeral and told me that she got mad at all of our neighbors for not knowing the pain our family was going through. Your comment really got me thinking. I am as guilty as anyone else. Do we ever really know what is going on in someone else’s life or what their pain is?
These last few months after losing Katie, I have really tried to open my eyes to the people and the world around me. There are little miracles happening everywhere if we can stop to notice. Notice the smile on the old lady’s face at the pay line when she says “Good morning.” Be on the lookout for the Good Samaritan helping the old man cross the street. How about watching a baby take its first steps? The “Make a Wish” foundation sent Katie and hundreds of children on incredible family trips during their struggles. Little miracles that put smiles on people’s faces.
In my professional life, I help prospective franchise owners select and research the best franchise for their life goals. I hope that my life experience last year has made me a better coach for my clients. I listen to them and try to really feel what they are going through. Only then can I hope to advise you on which franchise might allow you to balance your life and relationship goals with your career goals. Life is too short to spend in an office building away from your family working for someone else who really cares about you or not.
This holiday season I will miss Katie very much, but her words “Love the life you live” will resonate with me in everything I do and with everyone I am lucky enough to spend time with. I wish the same for you!