Most of us humans yearn for something or someone beyond our reach. This comes into effect when we break up with the ex, but long to have sex with the person because the sex was great. When feelings of lust come to the fore and become large, numerous reasons why the relationship didn’t work out may not be taken into account. Many men and women today don’t find it strange to get back together with their ex for a quickie or a few days of unadulterated sex.

Here are some thoughts that can help you analyze whether the road you’ve traveled once is worth the effort the second time.

The emotion

The thrill of having your cake and eating it without handling any real issues is part of the fun. A dose of unrestrained sex with comings and goings facilitates the exit. From snuggling or talking after the fun, wham and bam is enough! When we can’t get enough, even though technically we’ve had enough, the longing to probe deeper (sic) as to why the relationship didn’t work out in the first place can take over. This is precisely when the excitement has worn off, it’s time to get out there!

a dose of reality

The reasons, why the relationship didn’t work out in the first place, should be considered before getting into bed with the ex, I think. The tendency to romanticize the partner is bound to provoke worse emotions after the affair(s). This is when basic reality can hit you, making you realize there was no point in going all the way, anyway. There I was a reason why the relationship did not work out. Precisely for this reason it is better never to get on the horse again (figure of speech: choose your interpretation).

Unrequited love, you think?

Maybe, just maybe there were feelings involved that made the two of you bond! Since you have a clear idea of ​​the other person’s needs and expect them to return the favor, happily ever after wishes can wreak havoc on your emotions. The excuse that time has changed them for the better can lead you to idealize foreplay. A conversation with someone objective will help you determine if it was worth the effort to get to all the points: G, E and F.

hurt, again

Are you ready for the aftermath of undocking after docking? A big mess can come into play that leaves you with no time to heal old wounds that can manifest into bigger problems down the road. If there is a chance to get back together, after seeking help, it is May elaborate. Being in the arms of someone you’re familiar with may seem great, but the pain, again, isn’t worth the sex. Also, you have to keep in mind, if the ex is happily married or has moved on, why cause a disturbance?

The simplicity of moving on

Lust is such a strange emotion; it can hit you at the strangest times. People fall in love for a variety of reasons, with sex being one of the main contenders. The point here is do you really want to travel down the road with an ex? Isn’t it supposed to be just that? A person from your past that you loved has moved on and laughs at the funny times you had in the past. When it’s time to say goodbye, say goodbye and close the chapter. Saying hello again with an ulterior motive is not healthy.

The loneliness factor

Many people are alone. When an ex shows up exuding charm, jumping into the saddle can seem ideal. Unfortunately, one of the players in the game has moved on, so trying to recreate a situation to deal with loneliness will never help you move on. That being said, I have heard from many friends who have told me that the best way to get over an ex is to get under him/her. Oh good. To each one, his own is all I say. As long as his emotions don’t fool him into thinking it’s the real deal.

This is my opinion. Going back never helped anyone. It is better to move on, learn from mistakes and be happy.