Your boyfriend left you. There may have been no warning or maybe you could feel that things were changing. Still, when he came to you and told you that he needed a break or that he was no longer in love with you, you were devastated. You love him and the breakup hasn’t changed that. You think about him all the time and imagine how he would feel if you could make him regret leaving you. You can make him wish that he never left you. He may be so remorseful for losing you that he wants to be with you again. Sounds like a dream, doesn’t it? The fact is that making a man want you back is as simple as making him experience a feeling that will drive him into such a frenzy that he will beg you to come back to him.

To make him wish he had never left you, you need to make your boyfriend feel the same level of rejection that you experience now. We all often underestimate the power of rejection and what it can do to another person. It is what you feel right now and it is essentially the driving force behind your desire for your ex to want you back. She pushed you away and decided you weren’t that important to him. Your heart is hurt and your ego is hurt, so it makes sense that you want to show him that you are someone he really needs.

Using that same emotion to get back at him can work wonders. If you want him to wish that he never left you, turn him down too. The easiest way to do this is to cut him out of your life for a while. Start by calling him and asking how he is. During this call you have to sound your best. You must be calm and in control of what you are feeling. If you dare to tell him that you can’t live without him, you will hurt your chances of getting him interested in you again. You should focus on showing him that you are thriving and doing just fine without him. End the call by wishing him well in the future. Once you’ve done that, stop talking to the man completely.

Taking the step of cutting off contact with him is essential. It’s also incredibly important that you don’t stop living your life at this point. You need to get up and move forward without missing a beat. If you can show your ex that you are more than capable of living without him, his ego will be hurt. His need to show you that you still love him will be the motivating factor that will make him want you again. Rejection is a very hard pill for any man to swallow. Make your ex feel it and he will trip and run to you.